"'Requiem for a Dream' is the very first one I thought of because it didn’t ask which movie sex scene was etched 'positively' into your mind."
Recently, Reddit user KnewMedalPhan asked the question, "What Movie Sex Scenes Are Etched Into Your Mind Permanently?" Here's how the folks over at r/movies responded. And, fair warning, you might wanna put your headphones on for this.
1. Mulholland Drive (2001) — "RIP to David Lynch. I will NEVER forget being like 12 and just flipping through channels with my mom. Stumbled upon that film RIGHT before the first lesbian scene. I was absolutely mesmerized but was also trying to fumble for the remote to turn the movie off. My mom (who ALWAYS jokingly gave me a hard time about that kind of thing) quipped as I frantically shut the TV off, saying I must have been enjoying it. She wasn't wrong. I'm still so captivated by that whole scene and having the movie's full context later. It's so beautiful."
2. Starship Troopers (1997) — "Mobile infantry (and Dina Myers) made me the man I am today!"
3. Desperado (1995) — "Antonio Bandaras and Salma Hayek. Man, when she flips rear cowgirl for the camera…my god!"
4. Wild Things (1998) — "The alt girl and the popular girl getting together and releasing the ultimate fantasy."
5. Team America: World Police (2004) — "Top three of the most fucked up puppet sex scenes I have ever seen."
6. Requiem for a Dream (2000) — "The very first one I thought of because it didn’t ask which movie sex scene was etched 'positively' into your mind."
7. Showgirls (1995) — "In the pool with 'Jessie' from Saved by the Bell."
8. Unfaithful (2002) — "The hallway sex scene."
9. Enemy at the Gates (2001) — "One of the most visceral, down and dirty, human scenes out there."
10. MacGruber (2010) — "One of the most cringey sex scenes with Vicki St. James, only to be topped like a minute later by the sex scene with the ghost of his dead wife. Then when you see it from the perspective of the graveyard’s groundskeeper and he’s just bare-assed humping the air…LOL."
11. Atonement (2007) — "In the library. It was so hot it was uncomfortable to watch in the theater. It was like watching porn with strangers."
12. True Lies (1994) — "Not a sex scene per se, but the strip tease is forever etched into my mind."
13. Watchmen (2009) — "I believe the flamethrower was canon in the comics. Pairing it with 'Hallelujah' was…a choice."
14. Monster's Ball (2001) — "A coworker and I would always say, 'Make me feel good...make me feel good, Billy Bob, you son of a bitch!,' to crack each other up."
15. Secretary (2002) — "Housewives thinking Fifty Shades is hot when this came out 13 years earlier and has James Spader."
16. American Psycho (2000) — "'Don't just stare at it. Eat it!' American Psycho was the first time I saw a sex scene in a real movie that made me burst out laughing."
17. The Room (2003) — "You are my rose, you are my rose, you are my rose…"
18. Crank (2006) — "Sex in public, God that was hilarious."
20. Y Tu Mamá También (2001) — "It was a formative viewing experience."
21. Finally, Titanic (1997) — "It may be a cliché one, but it was the first one I remember. Didn’t expect it because I was in it for the boat. Instead, I learned that I like both men and women from it. Leo and Kate did something to me, man."
Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.