Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, once Hollywood's iconic couple, continue to navigate a complicated relationship as they cross paths at school events for their children. The former flames, who briefly rekindled their romance and married in 2022, split again earlier this year. Since their separation, Lopez has expressed a desire to maintain a closer relationship, but insiders reveal that Affleck is determined to keep things strictly separate.
Affleck, who shares three children with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner, has been spotted at school functions where Lopez's children, twins Emme and Max, also attend. According to sources, while Lopez would like to foster a friendlier post-divorce connection, Affleck remains reserved, prioritizing a clear boundary between their lives.
Ben Affleck prefers minimal interaction
An insider revealed that Affleck, 52, is willing to co-exist peacefully at events but prefers to limit interactions to a quick "hi and bye." Despite Lopez's interest in a closer bond, Affleck reportedly feels that keeping their lives separate is best for everyone involved.
"Ben knows he'll occasionally see Jen at these events for the kids, and he's okay with that," the insider shared. "But he'd rather not engage beyond what's necessary. For him, keeping their lives separate is the healthiest choice."
Jennifer Garner's support amid Affleck's split
During this challenging time, Affleck's former spouse, Jennifer Garner, has been a steady source of support for him. Sources note that Garner, who co-parents their three children-Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11-has maintained a strong, amicable relationship with Affleck since their own separation. The two continue to be a united front for their kids, with no reported awkwardness between them.
Meanwhile, Lopez, who shares no children with Affleck, finds it more challenging to maintain ties. She's reportedly been open to moving forward and even exploring new romantic opportunities as she distances herself emotionally from Affleck.
Lopez moves forward with confidence
As Lopez begins to move on, sources suggest she's embracing her independence and reigniting her confidence. "She's taking this time to focus on herself, looking to the future," the insider said. Lopez, who has never shied away from the spotlight, continues to balance her career and family, leaving any hopes for a closer connection with Affleck behind. While their paths may continue to cross, both seem to agree on maintaining respectful boundaries.