A bride's long-awaited wedding nearly took a dramatic turn after her "narcissistic" aunt, who had been actively involved in the planning, abruptly pulled out just two days before the event.
What began as an innocent request to accommodate an elderly guest spiraled into accusations, emotional manipulation and ultimately, a severed relationship.
The bride, posting on Reddit, described how her 59-year-old aunt had a long history of accepting invitations only to make up elaborate excuses for not attending at the last moment.
No Indication
However, this time felt different.
For months, the aunt had expressed enthusiasm, asking for directions, sharing details of the dress she planned to wear and even requesting that her sons be included in the intimate guest list.
There was no indication that anything was amiss—until 48 hours before the wedding.
At the last minute, the aunt asked if her 92-year-old mother, who required a wheelchair and a nurse, could attend.
Wanting to be accommodating, the bride agreed, but needed to confirm logistics with the venue. Arranging extra space and meals so close to the event required several hours of coordination.
Completely Silent
However, before the bride could finalize the details, the aunt suddenly withdrew her request, apologizing for even asking. Then, she went completely silent.
More than 12 hours later, rather than speaking to the bride directly, the aunt announced in a group chat with all the wedding guests that she would not be attending.
Alarmed and confused, the bride reached out, fearing something had gone wrong. Instead of an explanation, she was met with accusations.
The aunt claimed she had been "deeply offended" and that she could not tolerate being forced to "beg" for her mother to be included, despite the bride's immediate willingness to accommodate the request.
When the bride expressed her disappointment, the situation escalated further. The aunt accused her of being "closed-minded," declared that she "did not deserve" her presence at the wedding and added a cryptic remark: "You're not that young anymore."
At that point, the bride realized there was no salvaging the situation.
Toxic Tendencies
How to deal with difficult relatives is a common challenge, particularly when planning major life events. According to Taylor Counseling Group, family members with toxic tendencies often thrive on creating tension and emotional chaos.
Experts advise that rather than engaging in their manipulative tactics, individuals should focus on protecting their own peace of mind.
Similar conflicts have surfaced in other wedding disputes. Newsweek covered a bride who won online support for refusing to invite an aunt with a history of stirring up family drama.
Support poured in from other Reddit users who had encountered similar family issues. As one commentator urged, "Girl, take a breath, shrug that foolishness off, get some sleep and enjoy your day!
"Don't let the joyless steal your joy. Congratulations!"
Another remarked, "Please tell her thank you for not attending. You will keep in mind how well this worked out."
Final Message
Despite the unexpected tension, the wedding went on as planned. In a later update, the bride shared that the celebration was a joyful success, exceeding all expectations.
Friends and family came together to make the day even more special, with heartfelt gestures and surprises. The bride, who had been anxious throughout the planning process, found herself overwhelmed with gratitude.
When it came to her aunt, she decided to end the cycle of emotional manipulation once and for all. She sent a final message: "Goodbye."
After that, she blocked her aunt on all platforms and shared the entire exchange with family members. Their response was unanimous—they all told her she was right to cut ties.
"I really wanted her there and I attributed her behavior to anxiety and depression, so I was trying to be mindful of that," the bride told Redditors in reply in the thread, "But not anymore."
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